The decision to take on the Gobi March – a grueling, multi-stage ultra marathon across one of the world’s most iconic deserts – was a bold one, and preparing for it has become a transformative experience. As I’ve committed myself to this challenge, I’ve found that it’s not just about logging miles or perfecting technique, but rather about testing my limits, embracing the joy of running, and finding balance among work, family, and my personal goals. Here’s a glimpse into my journey so far.

A couple months ago, I dove headfirst into a systematic training program. This wasn’t just casual weekend jogs but a structured regimen designed to build strength, endurance, and mental resilience. Week by week, the mileage has increased, and I’ve been tackling different terrains to simulate the unpredictability of the desert. Long runs have become more than just part of the plan; they’ve become meditative, an opportunity to reset and push myself further than I thought possible.

Through this process, I’ve realized something essential: to truly become good at this, I need to push my limits but also remember to enjoy the journey. Some days are hard – especially when I’m facing an endless trail on a blazing hot afternoon – but I’ve found that if I focus on the present moment, running becomes a source of joy, not just a path to the finish line.

One of the most tangible milestones has been my physical transformation. I’ve shed about 8kg since I began training, a change that has improved my endurance, agility, and confidence. It’s a small victory, but one that reminds me how much I’ve invested in this journey and how every step is getting me closer to the Gobi.

With a full-time job, family responsibilities, and a training schedule, life is busy – but it’s also full. Work is progressing well, and I’m fortunate that my family is happy and thriving. My seven-year-old son, especially, has been a wonderful support, even though he’s a little young to join me out on the trails. Every time I head out for a run, he asks, “Can I come with you, Dad?” And every time, I tell him, “When you’re bigger, we’ll tackle the Gobi together.” So, even before I cross the finish line of my first ultra marathon, I’m already dreaming of the day he can join me in this adventure.

Taking on an ultra marathon like the Gobi March has required more than just physical preparation; it’s a mental commitment as well. I’m pushing beyond what I thought were my limits and building endurance not only in my body but in my mindset. And now, as I look ahead, I’ve found myself already considering a second Gobi March, even before I’ve tackled the first! This journey has shown me the power of commitment and the thrill of testing myself in new ways, and I can’t wait to see where it takes me.

For anyone thinking of taking on an ultra marathon, I can say this: the journey is as meaningful as the race itself. The preparation, the small victories, and the balancing act with life’s other priorities have all been part of this incredible experience. I’m still a few months away from the starting line, but I’m already feeling the rewards of this journey, and I look forward to crossing that finish line – with my family’s support and my son’s cheering voice in my mind, knowing he’ll be with me out there someday.